Home Life Adult Appraisal

Assess your level of intentionality over the past 120 days.

Marriage

How intentional have you been? Check all that apply
Had a date night twice or more per month to focus on one another without the children Wrote a note, gave a flower, or some other tangible expression of love at least twice per month Called during the day, sat down to chat, took walks together , or some other time of focused non-task driven communication at least three times per week Prayed with my spouse at least twice per week Demonstrated meaningful touch and /or verbal affirmation at least once per day
Avoiding Dangers
Took steps to reduce risk to my marriage in vulnerable areas (bad temper, office relations, demeaning language, etc.) by maintaining boundaries, increasing accountability, etc. Took care of myself physically and emotionally to be the best lifelong parner I can be Admitted I was wrong and apologized and / or forgave before going to bed after conflicts with my spouse
1 = Not Confident 5= Highly Confident

Between 1 and 5
I am confident that my marriage will last until one of us dies.
Must be a number between 1 and 5
I believe my marriage is, for the most part, God-honoring and happy
Must be a number between 1 and 5
Faith at Home

Check all that appy
Parents:

Parents: Connected relationally with my children daily (help with homework, eat together, etc.) Did something special with my children (hobby, ice cream date, etc.) twice per month Created an opportunity for discussing my beliefs and values with my children at least once per week Prayed with my children (including meals, bedtime, etc) at least five times per week Admitted I was wrong and apologized and/or forgace boefore going to bed after conflicts with my children Served together and/or participated in an intergenerational faith experience (father/daughter banquet, local missions event, etc) with my children at least once in the past 120 days
Grandparents:

Grandparents: Did something to connect with my grandchildren (a letter, phone call, etc) at least once per month Did something to help my grandchildren inherit a strong spiritual legacy at least once in the past 120 days
1= Not Confident at all 5= Highly Confident

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I am confident my children/grandchildren will have a strong Christian Faith in adulthood
Must be a number between 1 and 5
Single Adults

Check all that apply
I am Called to the Single Life: I have pledged to remain single throughout my life to give more time, resources and attention to Christian ministry and willingly sacrifice sexual intimacy to do so I hope to marry Pray about my/for my future spouse Have kept myself sexually pure knowing my body is God's gift to my future spouse or I have repented of past sexual sin and committed to remain abstinent until married Have taken proactive steps toward finding a Godly mate Practice spiritual and physical disciplines to help me become the best gift possible to the person I marry Have attended pre-engagement or pre-marital counseling or other sessions to learn the Christian view of marriage so I can submit to its demands and expectations
1 = Not Confident 5= Highly Confident

Between 1 and 5
I am confident my marriage will be God -honoring and happy
Must be a number between 1 and 5

Home Life Adult Appraisal

Home Life Adult Appraisal

Marriage

Avoiding Dangers

1 = Not Confident 5= Highly Confident

Faith at Home

1= Not Confident at all 5= Highly Confident

Single Adults

1 = Not Confident 5= Highly Confident